How does one succeed in life?
14.06.2025 04:11
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Procrastinates a lot.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
How are Hinduism and Sikhism related, considering they both originated in Punjab, India?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Have you ever had your crush reject you, and then later you all dated and married?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
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That's it for today.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
What habits do happy couples have?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
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Hangs out with loser friends.
Does not procrastinate.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Why do so many 18 to 29-year-old men struggle in dating?
Ask yourself:
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Why is going on a date today so much different than it was when I was young?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Why are so many young teenage boys misogynistic? Where do they get these attitudes from?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
What I need from you?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Making more friends is a goal.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.